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		<title>Peace Officers Memorial Benediction</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Prayed at this afternoons service&#8230; As your people in ancient times said, YaHWeH eka rophe, we say today, &#8220;Lord our healer,&#8221; and thank you for being present with us this day, and with families across this county and country who still hurt because of the loss of a loved one who served us. Be our [...]]]></description>
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<p>As your people in ancient times said, <em>YaHWeH eka rophe</em>,<br />
we say today, &#8220;Lord our healer,&#8221;<br />
and thank you for being present with us this day,<br />
and with families across this county and country<br />
who still hurt because of the loss of a loved one who served us.<br />
Be our healing.</p>
<p>We are grateful that you are with us every day.<br />
Even days when it feels like you are not present,<br />
on painful days, and in trying times,<br />
we know that you are here with us<br />
and care for us.<br />
Be our healing today.</p>
<p>And we trust that you will be with us tomorrow,<br />
whether we are officers or the people they serve and protect.<br />
We do not know all that tomorrow may bring<br />
but we do know that you will go before us<br />
guarding our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus<br />
and giving us the peace that surpasses our understanding—<br />
the peace that is you.<br />
Be our healing in all our tomorrows,<br />
<em>YaHWeH eka rophe</em>, Lord our healer.</p>
<p>AMEN.</p>
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		<title>Deal With It</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[James 5:13-20 September 27, 2009 Augustine, the fourth century Bishop of the Church in Hippo, Africa (modern-day Annaba, Algeria), said, “Thou hast made us for Thyself, and our heart is restless till it rest in Thee.” This seems related to the much older rabbinical teaching that a man cannot be healed until he deals with [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;">James 5:13-20<br />
September 27, 2009</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Augustine, the fourth century Bishop of the Church in Hippo, Africa (modern-day Annaba, Algeria), said, “Thou hast made us  for Thyself, and our heart is restless till it rest in Thee.” This seems related to the much older rabbinical teaching that a man cannot be healed until he deals with his sins. The Jews had a basic tenet that we learned about in our midweek Bible classes earlier this year. Yes, I am about to quiz my students once again. This is not a rhetorical question; I am somewhat eager to know if things I have taught by saying over and over again and giving examples from scripture and life actually soak in. So if you know the answer, say it out loud. Here we go&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">What is the name of the code wherein it is stated that if you do good, you will receive blessing and if you do evil, you will receive curse? If you need a hint, recall that I referred to it as more of a principle than a formula.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Well, I’d hoped more had remembered but that’s the way it goes in seminary classes too. The professors always hope more students know the answers than it turns out do, so you are, I suppose, in excellent company. It doesn’t only happen in Church Bible classes that students don’t recall the answers at quiz time.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The answer to my question is the Deuteronomistic code or more precisely, if you listened closely, the Deuteronomistic <em>principle</em>. This principle states that God will bless those who do good and curse those who do evil. The early paragraphs of Deuteronomy 28 spell it out and give examples. Job and other places in scripture give exceptions to the rule. But it is a rule nonetheless. God gets to break his own rules, if there is a greater purpose in doing so. For example, Job’s religious actions caused him to think, at least somewhat, that his religion was the source of his blessing. This is always a danger. God however—though he was proud of Job’s devotion—wanted more than mere religion for Job. So he broke his “rule” to get to the “principle” within the rule. Religion is supposed to bring us face-to-face with God, not simply make us religious or even better people. This principle within the Deuteronomistic “rule” is at the heart of today’s New Testament and Gospel lessons and the object of my sermon.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">We heard the disciples in Mark 9:38-50 tell Jesus that they were ostracizing people who didn’t follow them. They were not at all concerned about people following Jesus or even teaching Jesus. Their concern was that some fellow they had encountered was casting out demons and doing so in Jesus’ name—but wasn’t following <em>them! </em>(Mar 9:38) This is what happens immediately in what is only religion. <em>Do it our way or hit the highway.</em> The disciples had to be corrected right away. This isn’t to say that there is not sometimes a heresy in the ranks that must be addressed, but if somebody is a Baptist or a Lutheran instead of a Quaker, well, “the one who is not against us is for us.” (Mar 9:40)</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Then Jesus gets to the core of their problem—and it was the problem they had always displayed. They wanted to be the leaders, the bosses, or what amounts to demigods or demons or the <em>ubermensch </em>(supermen) of others. They wanted to call the shots and in so doing, they were basically stating a new code—a demonic one—instead of the Deuteronomistic principle. <em>Do it my way or be cursed. </em>Sound familiar?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">But even in religion, people who perfectly act out the religious code still get sick and die. This is because “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” (Rom 2:12) And there you see that ultimately, the code works. You do evil, you get cursed; you sin, you die. But what about the sickness that precedes dying?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The week before I went on vacation, I worked over 70 hours for this church. That is fairly religious, wouldn’t you say? Then I went on vacation and got sick. <em>Where’s the fairness in that?! </em>Job would cry out. I did what you wanted me to do and I get cursed. Let me be honest with you: sometimes I feel just like Job did. Why doesn’t our church grow more numerically? I’ve been faithful. I’ve taught people the word. I am faithful even when I don’t feel like doing this anymore. Even in the face of adversity and supposed defeat, I persevere. So how come there are not more results? Where is the blessing?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Of course, I am making an example and can name for you blessing after blessing that has happened here in these past ten years of service to you and our Lord. But I can just as surely name the defeats. I wonder; are they defeats or should we call them curses? And if they are curses, how do we deal with them before God and his Church?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The Jews have long believed three things that are based on the aforementioned Deuteronomistic code. One, sickness is caused by sin in a person’s life. That is why Job’s so-called comforters or friends insisted Job had sinned. They believed the age-old teaching that if you’re sick, and your loved ones died early, and your crops fail, and your cattle gets stolen, then you must have done something wrong—seriously wrong. And they believed this religiously. Job, on the other hand, believed just as religiously that he had done nothing wrong and therefore, God was in the wrong. He did not say this out loud; but I imagine he was thinking it. Religion always thinks that way. It is faith that dares to think differently. And so my favorite prophet, Habakkuk, says—and I paraphrase like a good Midwesterner: Though apple trees do not blossom and there isn’t a single red strawberry to be found, though the corn rots in the husk and the fields produce no wheat, though the cattle die in the fields and the milking barns dry up&#8230;I will shout the triumph of Yahweh, I will jump for joy in the God of my salvation. Lord Yahweh is my strength—not the fertile fields. It is he alone who makes me leap like a buck in the mountain passes. I walk with my God in the heights when all around me are sinking in depression. (Hab 3:17-19) That is faith! But for the moment, let us get back to religion.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The first tenet of the ancient rabbinical teaching, based on the Deuteronomistic code, was that if you seemed cursed you must have sinned. Second, if you wanted to be healed, you need to do two things. The first action was to confess your sins. This is where the New Testament lesson really comes into play. James, of course, knew the teachings of the rabbis. He had himself become a teacher. He was a student of Rabbi Jesus and would be teaching his lessons to his own disciples. So here we see this second tenet come into James’ thoughts. Call on the elders or other righteous people and confess your sins. (Jam 5:16) That is the first half of the teaching. Before we go on with the second half, I want to stress the first half just a bit.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Some would throw out this notion of confession with the Roman Catholic bath water. But to do so is to throw out the baby (Judaism) as well. And to do that is to throw out Jesus. Of course, that would be nothing new to religion. Religious types are always trying to get rid of Jesus. Jesus knew that the casting out of some demons required prayer and others required fasting as well as prayer. (Mat 17:21; Mar 9:29) Here we see that at least persistent sickness may require not only prayer but also confession. James seems to link suffering and sickness with prayer and confession. Now, I am not advocating that we open up a confessional booth in one of the unused Sunday school rooms, or that you go running to an elder in the Meeting every time you come down with a cold. Still, in early Methodism, the Wesley brothers met with the movement a few times each week to, amongst other things, “confess their faults to one another.” (Lee, James Wideman; Luccock, Naphtali; Dixon, James Main, <em>The Illustrated History of Methodism</em>, 85) And no—before you ask it—I am also not advocating confession of sins in Monthly Meetings or Yearly Meetings&#8230;though it may do a great deal of good.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So what am I saying? For one, that faith is serious business—much more than our religion typically allows. And for another, that there are sometimes reasons for our illnesses that transcend sneezes, coughs, and lack of rest. Sometimes our illnesses are not just the cold and flu or even cancer and heart disease. At times our illnesses may not even be physical at all. They may be mental or even spiritual. Paul teaches that the whole being is to be made holy, the whole person including spirit, soul, and body. (1Th 5:23) Sometimes our sicknesses are not just physical and perhaps those are the very ones that require fasting and confession along with prayer. Actually, I am not simply suggesting the possibility; I am telling you a spiritual truth. Even more, I will insist to you that these afflictions are ordained of God.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">God will stop at nothing to get you out of your religion and back into a right relationship with him. Job’s story (and there are others) proves that is true. So if you are sick or find yourself someday getting ill, in fact sicker and sicker, you may do well to do a little self-diagnosis. Ask yourself, <em>Why am I sick? Why am I tormented? Why does everything I touch fall apart?</em> If you do suspect your actions may be at the root of your illness, you should do this self-diagnostic sooner rather than later because what you have may be contagious. Your illness may spread to your children, your spouse, your friends, and even your church. We affect those around us—no matter how self-righteous we try to make ourselves. Just ask Job’s family if that isn’t the case. Job was not restored to God, nor were his family and fortune restored, until he confessed his sins before both God and man. Notice who was present when he said he was in the wrong. Along with Yahweh were Eliphaz, Bildad, Zophar, and Elihu. Sometimes, for serious spiritual defects to be dealt with, confession must also be made to men and women—particularly those whom we have sinned against. There is no other way to deal with it. You cannot get around it with religion or rationalization. Truth and confession are necessary to drive away some evil spirits.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">But the third tenet of James’, Jesus’, and the rabbis’ teaching is another that you cannot get around. You must not only deal with yourself in admission of sin and with others in confession of it, you must also deal with God if you are going to deal with sin-sickness. And so, you must pray. You cannot stop with what you can do; you must ultimately rely on what God can do. This is done in the prayer closet. When you have admitted that something is wrong and that you may be or are the cause, and have confessed your participation or even collusion, then pray. Perhaps pray with fasting just to err on the side of serious faith. But prayer is not just for the sinner. Indeed, it seems especially suited to those who are righteous and seasoned in the faith. Pray, fast, and believe in the power of God that mysteriously acts through your prayers. Tennyson wrote, “Pray for my soul. More things are wrought by prayer/Than this world dreams of.” (Van Dyke, Henry Jackson, <em>An Introduction to the Poems of Tennyson</em>, 89) James knew this and reminds us of Elijah’s powerful supplications.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The Lord caused it to rain after a drought that lasted three and a half years. But he did so only after the prophet had prayed. Is there a condition you know of that affects many, a spiritual dryness or even a drought? Deal with it! Do some soul-searching. Confess what God reveals—at least to him and in very serious cases to the ones you have wronged and to those who are able to help you recover. And if you are aware of someone else’s sickness, pray for all God is worth. Your prayers may restore that person to a right relationship to God and his Church, just as Elijah’s prayer restored the rain. Elijah’s prayer restored the balance of nature. Your prayers may restore a soul to the Kingdom.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Where Have You Been?” James 3:1-12 September 13, 2009 Homecoming Sunday Mark Twain once said that “it is better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.” He probably shouldn’t have said that since it very likely offended someone. It is so easy to say [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;">“Where Have You Been?”<br />
James 3:1-12<br />
September 13, 2009<br />
Homecoming Sunday</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Mark Twain once said that “it is better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.” He probably shouldn’t have said that since it very likely offended someone. It is so easy to say the wrong thing or to have someone take what you say the wrong way—the way you didn’t intend it to be taken. A friend said the other day that someone might as well not even work where she worked since they rarely came to work anyway. I looked at her like I couldn’t believe what she had just said. She looked back at me and said without pausing, “I didn’t mean that to sound ugly; I was just stating the truth.”</p>
<p>The great American architect, Frank Lloyd Wright said, “The truth is more important than the facts.” Many Westerners have a difficult time with his claim because we associate the truth with facts. But we should know better. American politicians especially, but also newscasters have been infamous for twisting the facts into their version of the truth. Evidently this spinning of the facts into a distortion of the truth that is sometimes maddeningly difficult to argue with was prevalent when our 16th president was in office. Abraham Lincoln rightly said, “How many legs does a dog have if you call the tail a leg? Four; calling a tail a leg doesn’t make it a leg.” The premise we begin with affects the outcome. We may say, “Well, the facts are ma’am, that this here appendage is not a tail; it’s a leg.” But everyone knows it’s a tail.</p>
<p>Pontius Pilate asked what he thought was a rhetorical question when he asked, “What is truth?” when Truth stood right in front of him. Col. Jessup said, “You can’t handle the truth,” when the facts were used against him in the court room. The truth is sometimes hard to come by and oftener difficult to explain. Perhaps that is why the great mathematician and theologian Blaise Pascal explained, “We know the truth, not only by the reason, but also by the heart.”</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Jesus said, “You will know the truth and the truth will set you free.” I think he was talking about something other than facts—something that could not be spun by politicians and news folks and attorneys. I think Jesus was speaking of himself when he said we could know the truth. Certainly he wasn’t speaking of being able to cut through the television chatter and determine if the Democrats or the Republicans were the ones telling the truth this year. When he said we could know the truth, he meant that we could know him. Only in knowing Jesus Christ is truth experienced in such a profound manner that it produces liberty—freedom from the tyranny of  fact spinning. This is in part because he is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. There is constancy in God that one will never find in man.</p>
<p>But how do you come upon this great truth called Jesus? Is it by walking to an altar and having a preacher pray over you? Sometimes. But as Joel said (Joel 2:17) and the band Casting Crowns sings, there is a lot that can be undone between the altar and the door&#8230;especially if we take our eyes off of the truth and let them linger too long upon those facts called the people around us.</p>
<p>Last week I wore old shorts, a ratty shirt, and running shoes to preach in so that I could provide a visual of what James said in chapter two, that the man who comes into the assembly in shabby clothing ought to be afforded the same, if not better, treatment as the rich man. Someone said after the service, “Preacher, you hit the nail on the head. My grand kids came to church in jeans once and some folks in church spoke poorly of them for it, and they have never come back to this church or any other church again.” You run a great risk when you take your eyes off the truth and let them focus on the facts. It is always detrimental to stop looking at Jesus so that you can keep boring holes into the ones who offended you.</p>
<p>Last Sunday, of course, by dressing the way I did, I ran the risk of offending someone before I even opened my mouth. And of course once I opened this big trap, all bets were off. It seems like every time I have opened my mouth over the 25 years I have been preaching, someone has misunderstood me. Especially in my first church. Margie always took me wrong and went running to the Senior Pastor to tattle for something I did not say. Well, I mean, I did say those things; that is a fact. But the way she took them was not the way I intended their meaning to be perceived. Usually. The truth of the matter was that I loved Margie and would not want to hurt her. Maybe that is why I love being the Chaplain and friend of so many Police officers. It is not that they always understand my meaning; they mostly just don’t care. I guess they have gotten thick skins from dealing with a certain side of the public.</p>
<p>But is James really concerned here with folks misunderstanding the preacher’s intentions or even someone occasionally saying a colorful word when a hammer hits their thumb? I don’t think so—not in the context of the chapter and the previous chapter for that matter. Those are matters, due to time constraints, better left to commentaries. Let me just cut to the chase and offer you what I think is really being said by James, along with what amounts to a side of embellishment and apology by your preacher.</p>
<p>First of all, I want to say that I am so sorry for anything I or anyone else has said to you over the years that may have offended you and chased you away. Certainly there are those kinds of stories in this church’s history. Maybe no one is present today who has been offended here in the past. But if you are or you hear this over the internet, I am sorry. Sometimes, as I said, we open our mouths and all bets are off. I want to encouraging you however, to please not dwell upon me any other Friend. We aren’t the point; neither is what we said the point. Jesus is the point and what he said is what we need to turn our attentions to. We have to get over our feelings, factual as they may be, and get to the crux. Otherwise, we stay mired in our own distorted realities when Jesus said he wanted to liberate us from those facts.</p>
<p>People have said and are going to say boneheaded things—present company included. We are, after all, just people. No one is master over the tongue. We may have mastered car repair or cooking or building cabinets or taking photographs. But no one is master of their tongue. James said that the tongue sets the world on fire and is the rudder that can cause great ships to wreck. “It is a restless evil,” anxious to cause more trouble. He is a willful person who is able to control that fountain; out of it comes fresh and salt, good and evil, blessing and curse.</p>
<p>If we curse another human being, who is made in God’s own image, are we so much maligning that person or God himself? We need to be very careful with these tongues. All of us. But none so much as the teacher. But even Rabbi Jesus could rankle folks. He said things that really stirred the pot. I guess he was speaking the truth in love. Sometimes I suspect he may have been having some fun at the Pharisees’ and Sadducees’ expense. Gloria Steinem said, “The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off. ” The truth does have a way of getting under your skin. It is supposed to. It’s in the job description. So James cannot mean that we should simply be careful not to offend folks. What was he talking about when he said that not many should become teachers?</p>
<p>Teachers were held in the highest regard in that ancient Church. There was no greater honor bestowed upon a family than that they take in their rabbi, taking care of his every need. Therefore people were eager to be teachers. And some of them should never have been teachers. I have had some of those folks as teachers. They couldn’t teach their way out of a wet paper pulpit. I have also been blessed by exceptional teachers and professors. It doesn’t seem to make much difference whether they are young or old but what does make a difference is maturity and experience. Some of the things I said from the pulpit as a young preacher, make me shudder when I think of them. Young preachers and preachers in general should be very careful about what they teach for they will be held more accountable for their words than others. This is because of ripple effect. Some preacher says something to a church and suddenly 100 people take it as gospel and start preaching it. So you better be careful what you say, teachers. That’s what James is saying.</p>
<p>Heresy or false teaching is all-too-easy to get caught up in. It gives you a corner on the truth. In other words, you have a few facts picked up from a verse or maybe a cross reference, if we are really fortunate, and a dogma spewed forth upon all who are unfortunate enough to be nearby. There is none so annoying or dangerous as the one who thinks he knows the truth because he has a single fact in hand. Read whole paragraphs, whole letters, complete books and testaments, indeed, the entire Bible—and that, many times—before pronouncing your doctrines as law upon the Church.</p>
<p>There are people who will not worship with other Believers because they do not use the right English translation. There is no dogma more bland and pathetic. There is no doctrine that sounds any more like that famous doctrine, We’ve never done it that way before and we ain’t changing now, than that one. I defy most Christians to read the original King’s English of 1611 and understand a word of it. And it is not so much because they cannot understand archaic English; it is because they cannot read. Oh, they can read words; they know the facts that G-O-D spells god and that D-O-G spells dog. But do they perceive the truth of what connected words and sentences mean? Most Christians I have known wouldn’t know a metaphor if it clobbered them over the head or the meaning of a parable unless the Rabbi explained it to them. And before you get offended, please understand that is precisely what Jesus had to do for both his disciples and us (in scripture). We are just as numbskulled as Peter ever was. Let us confess it; it may be good for the soul and will certainly be good for the Church and our families.</p>
<p>It is easy to say the wrong thing and just about as easy to teach a heresy, unless we do as James said earlier in his letter. I paraphrase 1:19: Slow down, shut up, and simmer down. But that probably offends someone. And if that didn&#8217;t, let’s try this on for size: Television has proved that most of us aren’t even as smart as a fifth grader. So why don’t we just admit it and get over ourselves? No one has a corner on truth—not even teachers and preachers. But we can know the Truth&#8230;and he will set us free&#8230;if we will keep our eyes on him and off the words of others. Jesus said it well to Peter in today’s gospel lesson, “You’re setting your mind on the things of man, not on the things of God.”</p>
<p>One of my favorite Zen stories has two monks, Tanzan and Ekido, traveling down a muddy road after a heavy rain. Coming around a bend, they met a lovely girl in a silk komono and sash, unable to cross the intersection. “Come on girl,” said Tanzan. At once he lifted her in his arms and he carried her over the mud.</p>
<p>Ekido did not speak again until that night when they reached a lodging temple. Then he could no longer restrain himself. “We monks don’t go near females,” he told Tanzan, especially young and lovely ones. It is dangerous. Why did you do that?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">“I left the girl there,” said Tanzan. “Are you still carrying her?”</p>
<p>What load of “facts” are you carrying? Where have the facts left you? Where has your heart been focused over the years and where has that left you? Where have you been all these years? Some of us are still riled over something someone said or did years ago? You probably misunderstood those facts for truth anyway. And even if you didn’t, there is a greater truth to be learned: Jesus. Some of us have yet to learn the truth. That’s why we are in bondage to someone else’s words. And they probably didn’t mean them anyway.</p>
<p>Where have you been? It’s time to come home. To Jesus.</p>
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		<title>The Negative Beatitudes</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 15:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[During devotions this morning at the Police Department, in trying to explain the beatitudes (Matthew 5:1-11) to a friend, the following occurred to me as a way to read the core teaching of Jesus: Happiness isn&#8217;t in wealth. Peace doesn&#8217;t come from never having friends and family die. There is no rapture in having the [...]]]></description>
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<p>During devotions t<span>his morning at the Police Department, in trying to explain the beatitudes (Matthew 5:1-11) to a friend, the following occurred to me as a way to read the core teaching of Jesus:<br />
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<p><span>Happiness isn&#8217;t in wealth.</span></p>
<p id="p40005004.01-1"><span>Peace doesn&#8217;t come from never having friends and family die</span><span>.</span></p>
<p>There is no rapture in having the world cower at your command.</p>
<p><span id="v40005006-1">You are not full just because you have plenty to eat and drink</span><span>.</span></p>
<p id="p40005007.01-1"><span id="v40005007-1">Just because you&#8217;re tough, doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re content</span><span>.</span></p>
<p id="p40005008.01-1"><span id="v40005008-1">You aren&#8217;t blessed because you keep religious rules</span><span>.</span></p>
<p id="p40005009.01-1"><span id="v40005009-1">The serene life is not necessarily one with an absence of troubles</span><span>.</span></p>
<p id="p40005010.01-1"><span id="v40005010-1">Cheerfulness doesn&#8217;t come from never being </span><span>harassed by </span><span id="v40005010-1">people </span><span>.</span></p>
<p><span id="v40005011-1">If people never put you down or slander you, it doesn&#8217;t follow that you are upbeat.<br />
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<p><span>You may be blessed even if you are poor, mourning, humble, hungry, thirsty, wore out, struggling with faith, persecuted, or just not feeling it. Blessing doesn&#8217;t come from an absence of negatives but from the presence of Jesus.<br />
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		<title>$1.99 Verizon Data Charge</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This month, for the first time ever, each of our Verizon cell phone numbers were charged $1.99 for a data usage charge. After checking, a data charge of $1.99 is for connecting to the internet with your phone and using between 1B and 1MB of data. But we specifically asked to have internet blocked from [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This month, for the first time ever, each of our Verizon cell phone numbers were charged $1.99 for a data usage charge. After checking, a data charge of $1.99 is for connecting to the internet with your phone and using between 1B and 1MB of data. But we specifically asked to have internet blocked from our phones when we signed up. So that couldn&#8217;t be it.</p>
<p>Could be games downloaded (or even browsed for&#8230;did you know you get charged by Verizon just for browsing?). Okay. We don&#8217;t use games either. Period.</p>
<p>Nor do we text, send photos, or do any of the other things that would incur data charges. We simply talk on the phone—and we don&#8217;t do that very much. We never use all our minutes. Ever.</p>
<p>So I called Verison customer service and spoke with Patricia. She was very nice and eventually credited our account for the amount of the overcharge. It took 12 minutes to accomplish this but I have to admit, that&#8217;s better than driving to the far edge of the county where they&#8217;ve stuck the new store&#8230;and then waiting at least 30 minutes for customer service (that way you&#8217;re stuck looking around their showroom).</p>
<p>So while I was waiting the 12 minutes for Patricia to do her thing, I searched the web for &#8220;verizon data charge 1.99&#8243; and guess what I discovered? 11,200 pages where folks are complaining about Verizon charging them for what they didn&#8217;t use. To be sure, I didn&#8217;t go through 11,200 pages but I could get the gist after reading several pages. Many were in the same situation as I, where the service they were charged for was blocked.</p>
<p>So how come the fees on (evidently) thousands of phones? I wonder how many additional thousands just pay the bills without a thought or complaint.</p>
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		<title>The Worst Vanity</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 15:16:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My sermon yesterday was from 2 Corinthians 6:1-13 and was about not receiving the grace of God in vain. That&#8217;s a curious phrase, &#8220;we appeal to you not to receive the grace of God in vain.&#8221; Paul doesn&#8217;t seem to be saying that grace can be lost. What he is saying is that grace must [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://markryman.com/BLOG/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/dapper_dan.gif"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-560" title="dapper_dan" src="http://markryman.com/BLOG/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/dapper_dan.gif" alt="dapper_dan" width="200" height="200" /></a> My sermon yesterday was from 2 Corinthians 6:1-13 and was about not receiving the grace of God in vain. That&#8217;s a curious phrase, &#8220;we appeal to you not to receive the grace of God in vain.&#8221; Paul doesn&#8217;t seem to be saying that grace can be lost. What he <em>is </em>saying is that grace must be realized in some practical ways in a Christian&#8217;s life or grace becomes another of life&#8217;s vanities. To receive God&#8217;s grace in vain must be the worst vanity of all.</p>
<p>Therefore Christ must not simply be worn as a badge of belonging like membership in a lodge or church. Instead, grace has to be added to grace (John 1:16) for a Christian to achieve some maturity (Ephesians 4:13) in their relationship with God. Otherwise their membership is a vanity. Imagine a child never growing into an adult relationship with his parents and being babied well into middle-age. Vanity. God&#8217;s children must also grow in grace or the Christian life stagnates.</p>
<p>Some practical ways Paul mentions we may receive more grace is through enduring hardships, exercising purity, knowledge, patience, kindness, the Holy Spirit, genuine love, truthful speech, and the power of God. He mentions more but you get the idea. These are real things, not the superficial actions churches so often expect from members. If you&#8217;re going to be a good member of many a church, then you&#8217;d better not use language they deem unacceptable, not smoke a cigarette,  and certainly not enjoy a beer after cutting the grass on a hot summer afternoon. What about being kind, helping a neighbor in need, getting along with folks, caring about the lost, being responsible, keeping your word, volunteering at the food bank, being patient with your children, respecting your spouse, and being a man in the word who works out  that word (Philippians 2:12)? All of these are avenues for grace to be built upon grace in your life with God. If you are simply a church-goer who doesn&#8217;t cuss, doesn&#8217;t chew, and doesn&#8217;t go with girls that do, then you&#8217;re likely just vain. You may have been blessed with God&#8217;s grace (and God knows you need it) but to what effect?</p>
<p>Some Christians are so afraid of sinning that they stop being of any use to God. So they make up easy rules that they insist mark them as followers of Christ. Sad thing is, their rules make them followers of themselves—not Jesus. Face it; you&#8217;re going to break God&#8217;s rules sometimes. Now if you&#8217;re one of those Christians who says he doesn&#8217;t sin, well then guess what? Lying is a sin. We need to get over ourselves. So when you sin don&#8217;t let your sin rule your conscience. Don&#8217;t let the wrong you have done predominate. This too is receiving Christ&#8217;s grace in vain. Bring your focus back to <em>what Christ did for you—</em>do not remain focused on what <em>you did</em>. Your sin is upon Christ (2 Corinthians 5:21) so don&#8217;t try to carry it yourself. This requires a gracious strength. It is not easy to to keep throwing oneself at the mercy of One so kind. Still, you must let go every day, otherwise your sin rules your conscience no matter how sorry you are. Though sin rules the occasional action, you must let Christ rule your heart and whole life. Otherwise you have received his grace in vain. He wants to forgive you, not watch you wallow in self-righteous sorrow.</p>
<p>Three-year-old, Ella, yelled out to her daddy last week during a church softball game—after he missed a hard-hit grounder—&#8221;Get your head in the game!&#8221; He could have become preoccupied with kicking himself or he could do as he did, redoubled his efforts and helped the team pull out a win.</p>
<p>What are you going to do?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Sunday&#8217;s Sermon <a title="The Worst Vanity mp3" href="http://grahamfriends.org/Sermons/vanity.mp3" target="_blank">audio</a> —  Sunday&#8217;s sermon <a title="The Worst Vanity wmv" href="http://grahamfriends.org/videos/20090621.wmv" target="_blank">video</a><span style="color: #808080;"><a title="The Worst Vanity wmv" href="http://grahamfriends.org/videos/20090621.wmv" target="_blank"> </a>(15MB)</span></p>
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		<title>Devotions at the PD</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 10:36:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Devotions at the Police Department are a new kind of thing for me. I mean, I&#8217;ve been doing devotions with the officers for years now but it&#8217;s always a different devotional experience. A little rougher; a little more in your face; a bit more basic. For example, a guy finds one of last Thursday&#8217;s passages [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://markryman.com/BLOG/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/ring.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-539" title="ring" src="http://markryman.com/BLOG/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/ring-300x199.jpg" alt="ring" width="310" height="199" /></a> Devotions at the Police Department are a new kind of thing for me. I mean, I&#8217;ve been doing devotions with the officers for years now but it&#8217;s always a different devotional experience. A little rougher; a little more in your face; a bit more basic. For example, a guy finds one of last Thursday&#8217;s passages to be very straight forward, so he paraphrases, and I quote: &#8220;Let me tell you one damn thing&#8230;&#8221; and then essentially delivers God&#8217;s message to us. He had my attention.</p>
<p>Another thing the guys enjoy doing is discovering verses they find amusing in relation to their wives. For example, the same guy who paraphrased above loves 1 Samuel 20:30. &#8220;You son of a perverse, rebellious woman&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>The Proverbs therefore have become a rich source of amusement for them. &#8220;Like a gold ring in a pig&#8217;s snout is a beautiful <span class="search-term-1">woman</span> without discretion.&#8221; (Pro 11:22) A foolish son is ruin to his father, and a <span class="search-term-1">wife</span>&#8216;s quarreling is a continual dripping of rain.&#8221; (Pro 19:13) &#8220;It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome <span class="search-term-1">wife</span>.&#8221; (Pro 21:9; 25:24)  &#8220;It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful <span class="search-term-1">woman</span>.&#8221; (Pro 21:19)&#8221;A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome <span class="search-term-1">wife</span> are alike.&#8221; (Pro 27:15) &#8220;An excellent <span class="search-term-1">wife</span> who can find?&#8221; (Pro 31:10)</p>
<p>Then there are the multiple passages that speak of the &#8220;evil woman.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, it was with unshared enthusiasm that I shared with them Proverbs 20:6: &#8220;&#8230;a <span class="search-term-1">faithful man</span> who can find?&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 13:25:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230;disabled my account for posting too much. Said it was abusive behavior. I made about a dozen comments in response to people&#8217;s posts on my Wall, answering questions. That&#8217;s abusive? They don&#8217;t know what abusive is. Whatever. Fail. I was locked out because I was posting comments, links, and finally three (That&#8217;s right. Three.)  &#8220;what&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;disabled my account for posting too much. Said it was abusive behavior. I made about a dozen comments in response to people&#8217;s posts on my Wall, answering questions. That&#8217;s abusive? They don&#8217;t know what abusive is. Whatever. Fail.</p>
<p>I was locked out because I was posting comments, links, and finally three (That&#8217;s right. Three.)  &#8220;what&#8217;s on your mind&#8221; posts. No explanation other than go to the FAQ page and try to figure out what you&#8217;ve done wrong. Good luck with that. Who needs life in a nebula?</p>
<p>But this is a good thing—a sign from God, if you will. I&#8217;ll spend more productive time here and putting a stalled <a href="http://www.markryman.com/daily_reform/">Daily Reform</a> into a useable form.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Susan and I pray for you a blessed Christmas and hope you will make time to join us in our home for fellowship and food on Saturday, December 13, 2008. Come any time between 4:00 and 7:00pm or stay the entire time. Please RSVP by Friday the 12th at 336-226-8240 or email me or leave [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Please RSVP by Friday the 12th at 336-226-8240 or email me or leave a comment in this post.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Susan and Mark Ryman<br />
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